Fantasy Woman - In Words

Contemporary society is a result of evolutionary factors that ended the hunter/gatherer existential lives of our Stone Age ancestors. It simply became harder if not impossible to sustain the ever growing families on gathered fruit and lucky catches from the wild. The dynamic nature of homo sapiens shifted gears and demanded that they settled down and cultivated their food rather than sticking onto the inadequacy of gathering it from the - not so - provident wild, after all.

Like several other prehistoric mammals, the human males would lose interest in the females after mating with them leaving the enormous responsibility of caring for the offspring to the females. Back then, nature seemed to dictate to the males to mate for procreation with as many females as possible. That explains how humans became so increasingly populous that gathered and hunted food was no longer sufficient for their growing pains.      

To counter the female's overburdensome of having to provide for the offspring alone, she evolved to be able to please the male with sex that was not for procreation alone but for recreation as well. As a result, the male ceased to go wandering about for females to mate with and concentrated on the female he already had had offspring with.

This turned out to be the consummate win-win solution nature ever devised; whereas the female benefited by way of the male's helping hands at bringing up her offspring, the male finally would have sex for pleasure without looking all over the land and often getting into fights with other males over territorial control.

“Fantasy woman” reminds society of the antediluvian advants that led to modern society. It is a truism that the woman you are with was once a fantasy to you. It's up to you to reinvent your fantasy; -- simply look deep inside and refocus on her and only then will you rediscover your “Fantasy Woman” all over again! 

The poet John Keats expressed it romantically in:-

“A Thing of Beauty is a Joy Forever”

A thing of beauty is a joy for ever:
Its loveliness increases; it will never
Pass into nothingness; but still will keep
A bower quiet for us, and a sleep
Full of sweet dreams, and health, and quiet breathing. ………….

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